punchdeck:

princeowl:

once one of my straight male friends who has a significant amount of sex asked me ‘when two girls do it how do you know when you’re finished’ and to this day thats one of the saddest things ive ever heard 

It never actually ends. F-F couples have to be very careful when beginning a love-making session otherwise they can enter an eternal loop that lasts until they die.

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I don’t understand the still widely perpetuated myth that fat people are all sexually undesirable and will die alone.

hey-shoes-on-wrong:

Like… wouldn’t knowing fat people who are sexually active pretty readily disprove that theory on a personal level? Because most of the fat people I know are in relationships. Hell, a lot of fat people I know have never slept a night alone in their adult lives unless it was by choice, same as some thin people I know.

I’m in a relationship and I still get propositioned. Not because I’m an exceptional fat woman in any way, but because I’m a human being that some people find attractive and engaging for a wide variety of reasons. You know, like every other human on the planet.

Yet there’s this message hammered into people of size that they are ugly, unfuckable, unloveable, and unwanted — despite the fact that the world is filled with fat people who get laid and are in happy relationships. 

Neither do I, but it’s so pervasive that despite being in a threesome for years plus one-night stands and FWBs on the side, I still struggle with feeling undesirable as a fat chick.  

dontbeweirdbabe:

Female comics are my life

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paulatari:

rosespirit:

0-memento-mori-0:

why-feminism-is-important:

ashypinky:

feminismordeath:

illusionarysilvercrystal:

clitulhufhtagn:

delicately-interconnected:

Wow this is the most disturbing bit of rape culture I’ve seen all day

This is so fucking repulsive this is seriously a fucking tip sheet for abusers holy fuck no

MAKE SURE THEY CRY AND THEN GIVE THEM ALCOHOL AFTERWARD SO THEY THINK YOU STILL LOVE THEM this is fucking disgusting what the FUCK

I think I’m gonna be sick

"Make sure it ends in tears." That’s not love.

kill me

"aftercare" is literally grooming your abused, emotionally traumatised partner into a state of comfort so that you can abuse them again 

i hate this world

"Rape culture" "abuse" "trauma" ???????? ?? ? ?? ? ???? ? ?

Are yoU FUCKING KIDDING ME?!!? This is a guideline for couples who ENJOY spanking in their relationship, for a wide variety of reasons, like the fact that it’s a KINK!!!!!! IT’S CONSIDERED A PART OF BDSM CULTURE!!!! Notice the very first image says "CONSENTING ADULTS ONLY!!!" THIS IS NOT ABUSE, THIS IS FETISH!!!

THE “AFTERCARE” THAT YOU ARE BITCHING ABOUT IS A **N.E.C.E.S.S.A.R.Y.**  PART OF ANY SCENES OR PLAYS THAT A COUPLE PARTICIPATES IN!!! IT’S LITERALLY WHERE YOU TAKE CARE OF AND LOVE ON YOUR PARTNER THAT WAS PUT THROUGH ANY STRESSING ACTS DURING THE SCENE!!!! IT’S A VERY IMPORTANT THING THAT EVERY HEALTHY BDSM RELATED SCENARIO SHOULD END IN!!!!!!!!

OH MY GOD, CAN SOMEONE THAT HAS A MORE EXTENSIVE KNOWLEDGE OF ALL THIS EXPLAIN IT IN MORE DETAIL FOR ME PLEASE?? I AM TOO ANGRY TO FIGURE OUT HOW TO DO IT!!!!!!

The “drink” is a freaking teapot! Alcohol and kinky fun times do not mix ever and that is NOT the impression this infographic was trying to bring across!!

The crying afterward is usually very cathartic for the spankee, and the after care builds even more trust between the two exchanging the power dynamic. This is some BDSM 101, with spanking being an INSANELY common practice. Ya’all need to learn to read better.

Smeg: That is very clearly a teapot.

Me: It is, although if someone regularly served alcohol in a teapot I’d be twice as likely to fuck them.

Smeg: Fair point.

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kateordie:


This one, too.

kateordie:

This one, too.

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"While evolutionary psychology suggests that women pass on casual sex due to an inherent lack of sexual desire, Conley says there’s an entirely different reason. She posits that women say “thanks, but no thanks” for fear of being judged. She also says that women have serious reservations about whether a one-night stand would be enjoyable with a new partner. She tries to explain to men, “The reason women are turning you down for casual sex seems to be that, for one thing, a lot of you are calling them sluts afterward.” Also, “A lot of you aren’t bothering to try to be good in bed.” Preach."

Women Want Sex & That’s What’s Up - Vanessa Golembewski (via honeyedheroine)

You don’t say.

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And, of course, this is without speaking to the fear of violence that may be the end result of said one-nighter

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"Clint Barton strikes me as a cries-after-he-cums sort of guy. A crymax-er. Enjoy that one, Tumblr! You’re welcome!"

— Matt Fraction (Sex Criminals #4)

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ohio-wasabi:

shinyrobutts:

rxnxwxy:

dooleysqueen:

norulesnobras:

basedhiyoko:

yoursexcrazedsub:

1.) The girl practiced safe sex and used condoms. SMART. AS. FUCK.
2.) I’ve seen this reblogged with notes calling her a “whore” and a “skank”. Fuck that noise. Over half the girls on tumblr will, or have, sucked the dick of a guy they just met, only hung out with a few times, or barely know, and then stress because he hasn’t called them back or he’s treating them like shit. Meanwhile the same girls go to work at a minimum wage job where they don’t even make $920 in 3 months, much less a day. 
Good for this chick. She’s on her hustle and I ain’t mad at her. Make that money, girl!

you go girl
suck them dicks
achieve your dreams

are we going to ignore that these guys were willing to pay $460 just to have pleasure? i might not know a lot about how this business goes down but dayum she must have done a good job



Twitter: You’re a whoreTumblr: you’re awesome

gotta pay the bills

A women with sexual autonomy!? SHAAAAAMMMMMEEEEE HEEEEERRRRRR

Good for her, absolutely, but I’m gonna be the one to go back to $460 seriously can we get an instructional DVD or something

ohio-wasabi:

shinyrobutts:

rxnxwxy:

dooleysqueen:

norulesnobras:

basedhiyoko:

yoursexcrazedsub:

1.) The girl practiced safe sex and used condoms. SMART. AS. FUCK.

2.) I’ve seen this reblogged with notes calling her a “whore” and a “skank”. Fuck that noise. Over half the girls on tumblr will, or have, sucked the dick of a guy they just met, only hung out with a few times, or barely know, and then stress because he hasn’t called them back or he’s treating them like shit. Meanwhile the same girls go to work at a minimum wage job where they don’t even make $920 in 3 months, much less a day. 

Good for this chick. She’s on her hustle and I ain’t mad at her. Make that money, girl!

you go girl

suck them dicks

achieve your dreams

are we going to ignore that these guys were willing to pay $460 just to have pleasure? i might not know a lot about how this business goes down but dayum she must have done a good job

Twitter: You’re a whore
Tumblr: you’re awesome

gotta pay the bills

A women with sexual autonomy!? SHAAAAAMMMMMEEEEE HEEEEERRRRRR

Good for her, absolutely, but I’m gonna be the one to go back to $460 seriously can we get an instructional DVD or something

lacigreen:

i’ve worked with a lot of universities that use the “consent is sexy” motto, and i get why they do it (it’s a marketing thing).  but i do think it downplays the absolute necessity of consent.  consent isn’t important because it makes things sexier.  it’s important because it prevents rape.

lacigreen:

i’ve worked with a lot of universities that use the “consent is sexy” motto, and i get why they do it (it’s a marketing thing).  but i do think it downplays the absolute necessity of consent.  consent isn’t important because it makes things sexier.  it’s important because it prevents rape.

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"A boy and a girl run around on the grass at the park. The boy tackles the girl. The girl laughs. She gets up and runs away. She loves to run. He chases, she turns and they grab each other, tumble and land in a pile, giggling. After a few minutes, he tackles her again and she lands a bit hard. She is bigger and physical, but he more than holds his own in roughhousing. She pauses for a second. Then she laughs again; she’s still having fun.

Dad gets his attention, and says, “If she’s not having fun, you have to stop.”

He is two. He needs to hear this now, and so does she. And again, and again, and again, so that like wearing a helmet on the bike it is ingrained."

Yes Means Yes blog: “visions of female sexual power & a world without rape”

Parents, siblings, carers, cousins, teachers, tutors, mentors, aunts, uncles, etc, of young children: we have a chance to mold the gender relations of the future.

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